Chem-is-try

Chemistry is important in life. Humans experience a chemical
  reaction upon meeting another human being. We determine within very little time
  whether or not we deem the relationship compatible or incompatible. An
  energetic match or mismatch is also determined early too. This explains how
  some relationships seem to flow with ease and others are forced or strained.
Human’s pupils dilate in response to the chemical reaction of attraction. We
respond in accord to the elicited, natural, and personal interchange. Chemistry
is a powerful way to see how connected we are to others. We can see our
influence or impact on others in a very tangible
manner.
                 
The first reaction to another begins with the ascetics. Do we find the
person attractive? Our brains go into hyper-drive when we deem another
attractive. We send out pheromones in response in a primitive form of offering.
We become giddy from the chemical reactions that are taking place within the
body. The second reaction to another starts at an energetic level. Do we feel a
rapport with this person? We can be attracted to opposite energetic matches,
very similar energetic matches, or an exact energetic match. We often encounter
the opposite, and similar vibrational pull, but rarely if ever meet an exact
  vibrational match. We can be magnetized toward any frequency, but the pull of
  the exact frequency is undeniable. The third reaction to another is within an
  emotional and mental state. What feeling does this person invoke in us? We can
  assert this stage to ego compatibility. We determine if our fragile ego can
  handle the relationship. We tend to avoid relationships in which we find
crushing, or bruising to our ego. We are comfortable getting to a physical
intimacy if our ego is stroked in pleasing ways. The fourth reaction to another
in within the tangibly physical aspects. How do we feel when touched by this
person? We tend to quickly categorize the touch response quotient rapidly. We do
a sort of flirtatious, dance. We lean inward to the person when we desire a more
intimate relationship. Our body language tells a story of openness and
receptivity. 
                 
We all mistakenly believe there is one person who is our perfect
complement, so we search outwardly for the person. We look to possible
companions to fulfill a deep, intimate need that we feel is missing from within
us. Here is our mistake, the ego creates this illusion that we are incomplete.
We are held captive by our own limitations. An amazing thing happens when we
free ourselves from the ego and our limitations. We become intimate within our
self and realize we are already complete. We no longer feel the false emptiness
because we are full. We gain truth that we must be whole and happy within our
self to tap into our own power. We can unleash greatness once we embrace this
universal truth. 
                 
We can fall in love with our own essence. This creates a pure love that
filters out into our environment. The universe reciprocates with more love and
universal truths. We can realize now that we effect the world and people around
us. This knowledge can enhance the very nature of our actions, and reactions
within our environment. We begin to create new possibilities and turn them into
new realities. We create the ultimate chemistry when we live a pure loving life.
We can than attract another person that resonates with us at deeper, more
intimate levels. We have the ability to magnetize our true love to us. We choose
whether to connect with our true love and reign in real love. Real love is only
achieved when we surrender to our own inner pure love, find our true love, and
make possibilities into realities.